Which would be an effective way to build a trusting relationship with a young child at the outset of counseling?

• A. Show the child that you can listen expertly
• B. Focus on presenting problem
• C. Develop a pattern of following the client's response with another question
• D. Avoid paraphrasing, summarizing, and reflecting feelings because of the client's young age

Answer: (A)

Building trust with a young child starts with showing that you will listen attentively and be present. When you listen closely—giving the child time to speak, not interrupting, using a warm tone, appropriate eye contact, and gentle body language—you signal that their thoughts and feelings are real and valued. This creates a sense of safety and partnership, which is essential for the child to open up and engage in the counseling process. Beyond just hearing words, you can reflect back what the child expresses and name the emotions you’re picking up, which helps the child feel understood and helps them learn to label their own feelings. Jumping straight into the presenting problem or firing off questions can feel like pressure or interrogation to a young child, making trust harder to establish. Paraphrasing and reflecting feelings are appropriate tools with children, not obstacles, because they show you’re tracking their experience and encourage accurate communication. In short, at the outset, demonstrating clear, empathic listening and a warm, accepting presence builds the foundation for a trusting counseling relationship.